It depends whom I'm having the conversation with... but most of my friends know I lean on the kinkier side just because of comments I've made. Most don't know the extent though. Nothing wrong with lightly putting it out there and keeping some secrets.

Most of my friends tend to be sexually charged and comfortable with sex to begin with, so it's not too bad. Also, if I mention something in a positive fashion usually it inspires more questions or a rehashing of previous similar experiences.

I had a friend talk once about how her boyfriend would shove his cock down her throat, and cum all over her face... and she loved it. A few of our friends gave interesting looks, or said they didn't like that, but for the most part it was all good.

She's not a sub but clearly they play around with many of the same activities. Most vanilla's aren't so vanilla... even if they lead you to believe otherwise. And the ones that aren't too experimental- teach them

I agree with Amber. There are very subtle ways to share our kinks without scaring anyone. Just like most stories, some details are ok to leave unsaid.