when vanilla people try to talk about kink

[leah06]

But what I really wanted to ask is...does anyone else ever gets exasperated and angry with this whole need for secrecy? I mean it is not like I want to tell all and sundry, and this isn't all I am, but it is a very big part of me.

When my Husbands ex wife died, her parents fought us for custody - their case was slim, and we won, but if this had come out, there is no doubt in my mind that their chance would have risen by as much as 50%. And considering our chosen careers (mine more so than His) - it just isn't worth it.

One of our kid's friends Mom, not so long ago asked me about "the locked room", I almost told her, but I am pretty sure she was of the type. Instead I said that that is where we keep my Husbands antique gun collection.

The moral: guns - good, sex - bad. C'est la vie.

Maybe it's different for those of us with kids. I can't begin to imagine discussing this even in passing, even in the same kind of broad details my friends use to regale me with tales of their sex lives. So I let it go. Sometimes it's fun to answer their questions totally truthfully, but completely blandly, and to know that there's just a lot more to the story than they're hearing. You can slip in a double entendre, too. So, you know, sometimes I crack myself up, but that's about it.

Yes, AdrianaAurora, four-legs good, two-legs bad.