All my friends are reasonably, well, horribly, vulgar in a lot of ways; but then, I am friends with men mostly

I don't expect them to get my kinky side though, what I view as a turn on they really don't, however, it doesn't bother me, I just find it funny when they act like a small spanking is heavily kinky... I'm there just thinking hmmm... wonder what they'd think if they knew!