That is a really good point Amber. I can't imagine not having this resource and community. (actually I can, but i would hate it.) I have more than one friend who likes to pretend sex doesn't exist, and has no idea what is going on. I feel bad for them.

On the other hand, I have talked more than one friend through the steps, the safety, and the "secrets" of one kinky activity or another. I'm glad they turned to me before trying things and getting hurt.

ie... handcuffs... it's amazing the stuff people don't think of when they wanna play with them. And anal, which to me always seemed common sensical, is mysterious and taboo to lots of my (guy) friends. I think I've saved more than one girl from the pain of some guy fumbling around blindly back there. lol



Damyanti, I understand how you feel. I really think the world would be a better place if we were all more open minded. And perhaps if sex ed wasn't just "put a condom on it or don't do it, since it's dirty anyways" I hate that I can't discuss it more openly. J can talk about his favorite hobbies to anyone and everyone. I ought to be able to too. (i tell him this a lot. it's a very good comparison. heh)