I told two of my best friends and they were cool with it. And I would never tell my family, but that's just because my sex life (no matter what kind) is simply none of their business.

But what I really wanted to ask is...does anyone else ever gets exasperated and angry with this whole need for secrecy? I mean it is not like I want to tell all and sundry, and this isn't all I am, but it is a very big part of me, (as every knowledge and experience does) it effects my thoughts on a great number of things...but when asked "why", I am not able to express them fully and honestly, because having the conversation.....