Quote Originally Posted by Phantome View Post
I also tend to notice when a sub jumps in and addresses everyone as Master (whether they know the person or not). Just kind of raises my eyebrows.
this is also a pet peeve of mine. it is just my personal opinion though. to me, Master/Sir/etc are titles that require an amount of respect to have been earned before i'll start dishing them out. it has been a LONG time since i've referred to anyone as Master. it is such a coveted title that, IMO, should be reserved for that one special person in your life. to see it tossed around so casually until it's lost it's meaning...i hate it. the same goes with "Sir". there are many in here that i greatly respect, but there is only one that, for me personally, is deserving of said title...and he knows who he is. but like i said, that's just my opinion.

generally speaking, i definitely think the wannabe complex isn't just reserved for Dominants. there are many wannabe submissives out there as well. the thing though...is that we are all different. so what seems absurd to me, may not seem odd at all to someone else. but does that mean they are a wannabe? or that i am a wannabe?