Trying to find a Partner in the lifestyle in your own are is a pain in the ass. Other then posting a personal ad or chatting in chat rooms online, and people being afraid to meet you, what else can you do.? I kno wthere are munches I don't attend timming is wrong for me, then there are ALT and Bondage and CollarMe.com, and on all of them the female subs play and tease but never meet. The reasons go from distance, to you married to I am scared to who knows what so all ya do is chat and play online.
The Question is what is the best way of meeting a partner for BDSM play othe rthen the above stuff?
Is There a better chatroom or a better way to go?