I agree with you there, Cadence. After my divorce I had no intentions whatsoever of becoming seriously involved again with another man. I wasn't purposefully looking and that's when Master showed up. I didn't have a resigned thought about it, like "Oh, I'm never going to find anyone for me, so I might as well give up." For me it was more like, "I don't really want a man in my life right now, so I'm not going to even start looking for one." And then I found Him. Funny how that works out.