I had heard from some people that submission is a gift, and from others that it is not. In fact, those who say it is not say that it is taken from the sub. My feeling is that it is a gift, but that it is the choice of the Dom or Domme to decide what is to be done with the submission, namely use it to better the sub or to do harm.


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