the action of submission and what we think

[Ownedfyre (mm1)]

Agreed. I think a D/s relationship requires just as much, if not more, effort as a vanilla relationship. With all parties involved there are boundaries, limitations, dislikes... and as said so many times before, each relationship will mold into a unique situation that works best for those involved. I don't want beat a dead horse, but communication is key. The bond between Master and slave is absolutely beautiful in my opinion. With the utmost amount of respect on both ends.

I could not agree more with your thoughts scarlet. Communication from the start will be the key to the relationship. your submission is exactly that...YOURS. SO what you submit may be different than what I submit. Regardless of how you submit, it requires strength and a real sense of self. There is no clear cut definition of what makes anyone a 'real' submissive.

~Master's muse~