the action of submission and what we think

[scarlet_85]

I think this is a "to each their own" topic. At times I feel like telling my Master to leave me alone for the minute and let me live my vanilla life. However, I promised complete devotion and submission to Him.

I had posted a thread about struggling with being a submissive vs. bring a lover. A few people had suggested that I set boundaries on when I am in that submissive role. For instance, saying Sundays are my day off. This allows you to breathe a little while still respecting the M/s relationship.

[thir]

I had posted a thread about struggling with being a submissive vs. bring a lover. A few people had suggested that I set boundaries on when I am in that submissive role. For instance, saying Sundays are my day off. This allows you to breathe a little while still respecting the M/s relationship.

Sounds reasonable to me. If you (generic) keep pushing yourself too much, you might end up, over time, being burnt out of the whole relationship.