Quote Originally Posted by Austerus View Post
If there's virtue in submission then it comes like all virtue: by ignoring temptation. Without temptation virtue is somewhere between meaningless and impossible.
Made me think a lot, thoughts that had thorns for me. Self critique. Gave bad score to myself. So, i abandoned the exercise in a quick and dirty way.

If there is one thing i am not fond of in BDSM it is this kind of dilemmas or pseudo dilemmas that appear very real, however, the moment they arise.

I do not like to resist temptation. I love to indulge to the Dominant's pressure to do or not to do X, to be or not to be Y.

This can be because temptation may only be imaginary, so that resisting it or indulging to it may not have any impact, anyway. The Dominant's pressure, being an order, or a rule, or even a a vague feeling that He is going to dislike something is something very real for a submissive and with original impact on joy or other things.