I've been interested (obsessed) with bondage for longer than I'd care to admit. The D/s thing is a more recent addition for me.

In recent years my fantasies & my D/s play seem to be getting more gentle. More into blusher brushes than whips.

My idea of torture is to say 'hmm- not sure whether to let you have an orgasm or not?'

How have your own tastes changed? More violent, less- the same? I used to be a sub in my younger days- couldn't imagine it now!

Tojo