Have you done it?
Are you thinking about doing it?
What's your opinion about it?
...send someone, or be sent on humilating tasks.
Observe dominance/submission protocol in a restaurant.
Use submissive positions and body language.
Walk around sporting a collar with D-rings or other accessories. Restraints, chastity belts, inserts.
Use a remote control for hidden toys that buzz...![]()
Dynamics – What's the purpose of the public? Do you want something to be noticed? Is there a challenge to keep something hidden? Is it the thought 'If they knew what I know...'
Knowhow – Preparation, toys, action. What and how?
Ethics – It's not possible to get prior consent from accidental passers-by. People who don't know you from a bar of soap don't know anything about your relationship. What's okay for a public scene? Where are the limits?
Local Laws – What do you need keep in mind where you live, to keep the cops out of your scene?
Emotions – What's the special thrill of a public scene?
Your ideas for and about BDSM in public...
This thread is a sort of generalised spin-off from part of the discussion in Tracy Lawrence Banned from Oregon Airwaves