ok... sooo.. i havent been on here in a while... annd i mean a long while... ad i miss everyone... just thought id start with that...

so i have a Dom... and i sub to him more often than not. we tend to switch every once in a while once i have gotten frustrated enough to take him. lately i havent been in the mood to dom or sub and i dont know why...

so that brings me to my question....

if you have a lot of stress going on and you are a dom or sub... does it make it a little harder to dom or sub? or are you able to not show it/ and if you are able to not show it then how do you do it/