I was wondering of the other Dom/mes out there might give me some help. I am a new-ish Dom. I have been into BDSM and the lifestyle for a few years now. But I never had anything but a vanilla relationship since I even found out about BDSM, until now. I currently have my sub, and while I have had different troubles with her, I have managed to correct most of them, to one extent or another, we still work on alot of things.

At the same time though, I was wondering if some out there might give me advice on...anything truly. How to handle certain behaviours she has. How to punish her for things, it is long distance and she still lives with her un-knowing family. I am not quite sure what else, persay, but any advice would be appreciated.