BSDM vs. vanilla break-ups

[denuseri]

I am going to assume you mean actual relationships in real life here.

And that being the case:

I would say it depends upon just what kind of bdsm relationship your talking about. A once a month visit from one's service top or a casual D/s arrangment doesnt compare to the intensity shared between a live in 24/7, TPE, Master and slave dynamic.

[thir]

A once a month visit from one's service top or a casual D/s arrangment doesnt compare to the intensity shared between a live in 24/7, TPE, Master and slave dynamic.

True. At least for the slave's side, who, according to this and other lists, have trouble taking care of themselves and often simply do not know what to do with themselves for the longest time.