Being under a Dom, who is under one themselves?

[brwneydgirl]

How common is it for a Dom to have a sub/slave, and also submit under another Dom?

I'm curious about your question...are you concerned that it's uncommon or unusual and, therefore, wrong? I guess what I'm asking is, how do YOU feel about it?

[Ylatch]

I'm curious about your question...are you concerned that it's uncommon or unusual and, therefore, wrong? I guess what I'm asking is, how do YOU feel about it?

Ohhhh no no not at all. I just feel like our relationship dynamic has changed, and was wondering if anyone else has had this happen. At first, I was a little cautious about the change but I'm ok with it

I'm new to this, so I just don't know if this is common or rare is all

[Jennifer Williams]

Ohhhh no no not at all. I just feel like our relationship dynamic has changed, and was wondering if anyone else has had this happen.

Sure, all of us. Relationship dynamics change all the time; that is what relationships do. The changes tend to be gradual, though, so if it was something sudden it can feel unsettling, sure.

At first, I was a little cautious about the change but I'm ok with it

That's really all that matters; as long as you, your partner, and whoever else is involved are still feeling happy with however things are going, then don't worry so much.

I'm new to this, so I just don't know if this is common or rare is all

Who cares? Look at it this way: since every relationships is unique (because it's made of people, and each person is unique), then everything is rare because there is only one relationship exactly like yours.
Even for kinks that are "common", each person has their own variation of it that makes it completely unique.

If your dom has a dom, and all three of you feel happy and fulfilled, then all the more kudos to you, getting three people to get along like that (when getting just two to be happy can be so difficult!) However I'll tell you the same thing everyone else has; make sure you speak with your dom about your concerns and feelings; communication's even more important when you have so many people involved. Hope this helps!

[skittish doe]

what I'm asking is, how do YOU feel about it?

An excellent question. Ylatch, you alone have this answer. After you have determined the answer for yourself, discuss it with your Dom. Perhaps you only feel that your relationship dynamic has changed. But if you feel it, then you need to address this feeling with your Dominant. Your feelings should not be ignored, by either of you.

Welcome to the journey. Enjoy.