Quote Originally Posted by spicennice View Post
When speaking about consent within a D/s relationship if the sub originally goes into a D/s relationship and says she is not comfortable with him having multiple partners, is that out of line?

No of course not. At anytime in fact, even after or during a multiple partner sistuation, one may decide its simply not their cup of tea and revoke consent to participate, or refuse to continue participating, even mid scene.

Its what Safe, sane and "consensual" is all about.

Its also perfectly ok to insist that ones partner not be ingadging in relations outside of the one they have with oneself. Polyamory and or open relationships and or multiple partners are not a given in a bdsm relationship.

Is it a given that the Dom may have as many partners as he wishes?
Of course not. BDSM is a two way street. "All partners" involved have to be consenting partners, dom, sub or otherwise.

As for a dominant disregarding that and going off and being with other subs after having agreed to be exclussive with you...well smh, I sure dont call those dominants, I call them cheating asshole players. lol