vanilla relationship, but i NEED more!

[brwneydgirl]

Are you married? When he discovered you were talking to someone online, was he angry or jealous? (or both). I have a similar situation and can't really give any great words of wisdom...just try to keep plugging away at him and if he seemed aroused by "O", maybe there's hope?

good luck

[naughty_rick]

Have you tried to show him the BDSM site, maybe you can try and see how he reacts. It may solve your problem.

[oww-that-hurt]

Might I suggest you join this site's Tasking area in order to possibly gain some insight into yourself? It's really pretty cool.

[toy_k]

Might I suggest you join this site's Tasking area in order to possibly gain some insight into yourself? It's really pretty cool.

Well i didnt know anything about that. I originally came on here for the stories but i have found the forums very helpful. But tasking huh.....i will check it out

thank you

[toy_k]

Have you tried to show him the BDSM site, maybe you can try and see how he reacts. It may solve your problem.

I did have him read some of the stories i liked on here and same reaction: not much to say but a bulge in his pants....lol. So i dont know if he liked the BDSM stuff or just the fucking. But maybe i will try again. I just dont want to be bugging him or anything

[toy_k]

Are you married? When he discovered you were talking to someone online, was he angry or jealous? (or both). I have a similar situation and can't really give any great words of wisdom...just try to keep plugging away at him and if he seemed aroused by "O", maybe there's hope?

good luck

He was angry, but it seemed like he was more upset that i couldnt go to him. I really didnt understand his reaction, i kinda wish is was jealousy. LOL

And no not married, but thats the next step in our relationship if we decide to go any further.

and i hope your right about there being hope