Do switches make switches?

[Mothra!!!]

So I'm talking to Doms like a new friend without pretension and I indicate that I'm interested in maybe meeting them. They accept and then (this has happened MULTIPLE TIMES) they say something like "hey and if you wanna Dom me a bit that would be awesome! I have a virgin ass *grin*".

What makes someone who has no sub experience, has the word Dom all over their profile and seems to be really into topping suddenly want to bend over and take it in the ass? This never happened when i was a sub, only when my profiles say switch.

To my mind, "submissive" does not always have to mean "the one who takes it in the ass." My Owner sometimes likes for me to wear a strap-on with Him, but that doesn't mean that suddenly I'm the domme. He's still calling the shots even if He's the one being "done," and it's His decision whether or not I get to do that.

It seems possible that some of these Doms, at least, might be thinking along the same lines. On the other hand, it's equally likely that the assumption is that every switch likes to change roles mid-scene and/or with the same person, which (as many of us know) is not necessarily the case. As to why these people billiing themselves as Sir Domly Dom, the Dommiest Dom Ever are saying these things, I don't know -- unless it's that they aren't really who they say they are

[voxelectronica]

As to why these people billiing themselves as Sir Domly Dom, the Dommiest Dom Ever are saying these things, I don't know -- unless it's that they aren't really who they say they are

omg that is the funniest thing I've seen in awhile.

So i asked one. Yes just one. Why he Sir Domly Dom wanted me to play with him. I was actually shocked at the answer.

I'm shocked in general when boys say things of this nature anyway but he says "because I don't just wanna play with someone. I want a relationship but I don't want one with a sub. I want a relationship with someone who can Dom as a Dom not as a sub. So that she and I can have subs together."

It was... sweet. I don't talk to him much anymore though.