In my vanilla life I have never shared anyone. And yet being owned I share my Dom with another. We talked about it before he began talking with other subs. I found it very interesting that I was not only ok with it but eager to converse with his other sub, she by the way is great!. He has told me I am his number one and I love that but I also let him know that she needs his affection and teachings as well. Its like we are all learning and loving together. I found it is a great fit, but i dont think I could do it with just anyone though. and I dont think I will always be willing to share. yet I feel like it is almost a duty to share the teachings of BDSM to others. But this is just me and doesnt apply to everyone, for those that can great, for those that cant great as well. we all just have to find our fit in the world
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