hmmmm

[ashtonDs]

Originally posted by cadence:
Maybe they want us to use our imagination more, isn't that what Dominants want most of the time anyway?

...or maybe they're afraid of what you would think of them if you knew how they looked. lol

[gemmy]

...or maybe they're afraid of what you would think of them if you knew how they looked. lol

but then doesn't that shatter the whole "I am Dom, hear me Roar" confidence we're supposed to believe in regardless?

and ummmm, really - it's the subs with the confidence issues and yet here we are posting numerous photos anyway - makes a gurl really really contemplate that whole 'confidence' thing

[steelish]

but then doesn't that shatter the whole "I am Dom, hear me Roar" confidence we're supposed to believe in regardless?

and ummmm, really - it's the subs with the confidence issues and yet here we are posting numerous photos anyway - makes a gurl really really contemplate that whole 'confidence' thing

I've been thinking about that as well! Maybe they think that we women visualize big strong muscular men sweeping us off our feet and having their way with us. (makes them nervous that they can't live up to the fantasy?)

[Chuckdom19]

*ahem* some of we Doms (us Doms? whatever) DO have our pictures on our profiles, just not as avatars. It is much more fun to require our subs to post pics than it is to post our own, as all women are beautifully different, and most male faces are just boring. Might be my genetic bias there, not sure.

[gemmy]

*ahem* some of we Doms (us Doms? whatever) DO have our pictures on our profiles, just not as avatars. It is much more fun to require our subs to post pics than it is to post our own, as all women are beautifully different, and most male faces are just boring. Might be my genetic bias there, not sure.

I don't buy it at all, sorry lol (maybe a male face isn't boring to us just as you think all women are beautiful?)

If the 'all fearing confidence' that all subs are supposed to believe in is there, what's the issue?

And to Steelish, then doesn't that make them 'insecure'?

[cadence]

but then doesn't that shatter the whole "I am Dom, hear me Roar" confidence we're supposed to believe in regardless?

and ummmm, really - it's the subs with the confidence issues and yet here we are posting numerous photos anyway - makes a gurl really really contemplate that whole 'confidence' thing

...or maybe they're afraid of what you would think of them if you knew how they looked. lol

hmmmm, now you have made me think more about this. I know when I first saw a picture of my owner, I thought damn it, you do not look like the sadistic bastard I thought you would be. He looked way too sweet, he even has dimples!(thank god he's too busy too show up and see this)
Maybe it is the "I am Dom, hear me Roar confidence" , they have an image to uphold.
I have more on this, but I need to think about it first.