I don't think that there are many (if any!) subs who abuse their safewords. I would never use mine just because I feel uncomfortable or am cranky or whatever. As far as I can go, I will go -- it's in my nature to want to please, and judging from what I read many subs feel very similarly to that. Anyway, just a thought...if your word of release works for you, that's perfect. I just don't think that having a safeword sets the scene for having somebody abuse it -- I apologise if I read this wrong.

And no nos? I guess I am a lucky girl, it's only no buts for me. I'm bad at it, though. I could bite my tongue off every single time, but it just slips out and...yeah well. Nobody's perfect.