A plea for guidance

[jeanne]

I took some time to think about everyone's comments...

I'm sure though that if your relationship is a good one and your husband wants you to be happy, he'll try and find ways over time to find some middle ground with you.

Our relationship is good, but I'm not looking for half-hearted from him. As thrall said:

"if you don't want this for yourself, than its not worth my having."

I agree with her. He doesn't get that the thrill for me would be that he wanted it, wanted all of me and even more...and took it.

I think Oz comes closest to the answer

Hmmm. I don't like to admit that, no ma'am I don't. It sure does seem like we're all on a "Oz is right" kick here in the forums lately. He's going to become conceited.

jeanne that wasn't flattery nor a compliment just the truth, I too feel that way for you and have for quite some time. I guess I can relate as well as a Dom can I travel across country to be with morgan since she could not do without me only to be treated like dirt once I got here. Different sides to the same coin.

Well, Sir_Russell, you got a blush out of me. Not an easy thing to do. I am still so sorry about your relationship with morgan - I know you care for her very deeply.

The more I talked the more he shut down. I'm afraid it caused a lot of damage in our relationship.

We were getting to that point. Damaging.

Figuring it out, just not very well yet,
jeanne