oh lady c. ~~ your words hurt me to the core.. you know I am always considerate of both sides .. well until one doesn't listen and need to be set upon a flaming hot griddle to make them understand with their hard headed subbies self.![]()
I think what Tom may have meant and i've not seen it.. is Doms have to think of many things when they perform their actions. It's not an easy thing.
perhaps it wasn't an answer to your post.. But neither was it out of line .. threads often have branches that don't necessarly pertain to the original post.
I would be nice to see more subs who seek to please rather than be pleased.
And that is all i'm going to say on my last sentence.