BDSM For Parents

[nightsilver]

I guess if both the mom and the dad are happy regardless of the context of the situation, then the kids will pick up on the body language and other small signals that are in contrast to a subservient and abusive type of relationship?

[jeanne]

I guess if both the mom and the dad are happy regardless of the context of the situation, then the kids will pick up on the body language and other small signals that are in contrast to a subservient and abusive type of relationship?

I hope the big smile on my face all the time is more than just a small signal! Truly, there's nothing we do in front of the kids (or our friends) that could be interpreted as more than just showing love and respect. Do I fetch things for him, ask if he'd like another Coke, beer, drink, plate of dinner, etc? Yes, I do. Do I sometimes sit at his feet? Yes, I do. Only he and I are aware of the D/s dynamic underneath it all.