It was very hard for me to accept being domme since i was (am being?) raised in semi-rigid sex based roles. I used to find it a lot easier (and didnt question) being sub...right up until i started learnning about gender pltx and feminism. As i started to become more liberal (and more aware) i was able to accept that i was a domme in most situations, and I wouldnt have it any other way!