I can somewhat understand what you mean but from my own perspective.

There have been times when I have asked myself am I really what I say I am. Then I begin to think about the areas that I gain a sense of satatisfaction, and just what feels right. I keep on comming to the same conclusion, I am what I am claiming to be. I am a Domminant/Master, what ever word you want to call it but it is who I am.

I do hope to have many eventful, experiences in the life.