Thank you for your overview, Curtis. Yes, little Alex does believe in ‘norms’. Normal, and norms, by their very definition exist. If I didn’t acknowledge ‘norms’ I wouldn’t be normal, would I?

Out of respect to Alex I have not said anything on this topic. When I was much younger 13 and so horny I would hump a doorknob. I often had fantasies of being tied up at the power of a stronger woman, I got better.
You know I found this post of yours extremely interesting on a number of levels.

I, too, had submissive fantasies when I was younger. Now, in my late twenties, I’m finding I fantasise more and more about being dominant. I had rather assumed that I was just discovering my latent switch side.

What do you feel caused these changes? Was it a gradual process, maybe during puberty? Or, was it a particular incident that jolted you into dominance?

And what do you mean ‘…I got better’? Surely you meant to type ‘it’ got better?

Now I have fantasies of tying up the stronger woman. Do I think male submissive are wimps, Well I don't know. I wouldn't say wimp is the right word. However macho man is not it either.
Not wimps or macho men? I agree. They’re just individuals who are free of social pressures to act out a ‘normal’ and typical male role, who are happily pursuing their own sexual fantasies and needs.

There is a difference when it comes to male and female subversives.
Absolutely, yes! But that’s a whole new topic.

Most Females could be easily subdued and conquered. A Male if push came to shove could grab the whip out of a Mistress hand and beat her bloody with it. The point is he submits out of choice.
That’s why it’s call ‘power exchange’, and that, I’m sure, is what makes it so damned exciting for male and female submissives alike. It would be plain rape, slavery, and debauchery otherwise, wouldn’t it? I’ve often heard the expression ‘gift of submission’ in reference to bdsm. That’s exactly what submission is – a gift.


If he chooses to submit then that would take an inner strength. That I do not poses. If a little 90 pound pixy with a whip tried to beat me with it and make me crawl on the ground like a dog. I dont think she would have a very good day. She would definitely end up in mobys dungeon.
And that’s exactly why ‘she’ wouldn’t do it – because you wouldn’t ‘enjoy’ it. There’s got to be something in it for both parties or it’s just simply not bdsm in my view. Of course, 'she' might enjoy a little time in Moby's dungeon.


And, csr, thanks for making me smile.