Something you tuched on in your disertation but did go into becouse of it. YOu said that one of the theries that weman how were aboude became subisof or something like that. and you discounted it. Your right that isn't out come, it is the why. But the reason why is the worsed. It is becouse the Man is also sub as is the woman but has been toled all of his life that men are strom and have to be incharge. thay are taught to a top, when thay are realy a bottom.