What makes a good sub?

[babykat]

I read this several times over because it is something I hope I can find to be true.... especially this:

To reach a true understanding about self is far greater at times
than even reaching an orgasm can be.

I look for trust as well, someone who knows in their heart
that a long journey made together is often less frightening
than having to go it alone.

I look for strength, maybe that which they have never thought
they possessed or only needed a reason to make it grow.

Mostly what I look to find within someone is a genuine
desire to know themselves and want to free themselves
from their own fears and inhibitions.

To grow and evolve into who they were meant to be
because they have found there is NO shame in being
who you really are!!!

All too often some feel out of place, unaccepted and keep
everything so bottled up within them they really don't know how
to be who they are on the inside.

To reach a true understanding about self is far greater at times
than even reaching an orgasm can be.

I look for trust as well, someone who knows in their heart
that a long journey made together is often less frightening
than having to go it alone.

I look for strength, maybe that which they have never thought
they possessed or only needed a reason to make it grow.

A true desire to want to be themselves and hope to know
through sharing that what they may have kept hidden
from others and even themselves at times has an equal
place in this thing we call life.