How to give the BEST blow job?

[Jones, Nikka]

… apart from the all around fantasy of deep throating (and that one too – if someone could enlighten me – how exactly do you manage to do it for extended period of time without evacuating last few meals?!) and some other imaginary always-in-the-story described actions - what is in your experience really really cool, and details please – maybe we can learn something.[

The secret, in my humble opinion, is Location! location! location! It may take more than a few tries, but if you manage to find the most sensitive part of his penis and massage it with the softest part of your tongue, you could keep him on the verge of orgasm until kingdom come.
Contrary to popular belief, blowing or sucking with lips sealed around the shaft do not give the man any more pleasure than licking and massaging. I have been told that my hot breath on his erection as I tried to speak without letting him out of my mouth was a very sexy detail.

Once, after reading a story here in bdsmlibrary called High-Heeled Hell, F and I decided to try a bit of breath play during oral sex. Like in the story, a rope was wound around my neck with a metal ring handle that could be twisted to control my breath as I went down on him. The whole thing sounds very exciting on paper but I was not in the mood for passing out from the pain and besides F happens to be a safety freak so the rope was tied in a non-constricting, no-slip manner and he barely touched it during play. He did say it made me look very helpless and sexy. I was so turned on by the idea of being strangled as he fucked my mouth that I was holding my breath all by myself without the rope really chocking me. I had two orgasms by the time he came inside my mouth.
And of course, all men find it incredibly arousing to see me us girls swallow.

[Gallardo]

Strong raspberries on his balls??? Care to enlighten me =P

[lilli]

what is in your experience really really cool, and details please – maybe we can learn something.

This is not strictly in the BDSM line of things but someone I 'knew' loved the alternate sensations of hot and cold while getting a blow job, the secret is a hot cup of something (tea, coffee, Water etc) a couple of ice cubes and of course teeth that are not sensitive!!

The alternate sensations of hot and cold used to drive him absolutly wild!

[redEva]

Strong raspberries on his balls??? Care to enlighten me

you know how kids blow "raspberries"? well, have your partner put their lips firmly against your balls and than do that = blow raspberries, but not gently, strong . I've been told it sort of tickles, kind of like from inside

[nowgirl]

Once, after reading a story here in bdsmlibrary called High-Heeled Hell, F and I decided to try a bit of breath play during oral sex. Like in the story, a rope was wound around my neck with a metal ring handle that could be twisted to control my breath as I went down on him.... He did say it made me look very helpless and sexy. I was so turned on by the idea of being strangled as he fucked my mouth that I was holding my breath all by myself without the rope really chocking me. I had two orgasms by the time he came inside my mouth.

just started reading this thread but... now must run to read the aformentioned story............. sounds delicious!