It's funny, cause that wasn't how i read CSR's post at all. The way i took the line 'just how not normal am I?' was in a tongue in cheek way; as a closing line to a post that essentially presented the view that when people use the term 'not normal'...in reality, a great percentage of people have 'abnormal' desires be them acted out, not acted out or even completetely unrealised/latent....which kinda leads one to question whether the very notion of 'normal' has any meaning whatsoever,
Incidentally, i agree with you CSR, if this was indeed roughly the point you were making.
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