I would think that if one cannot remember a given session unless a specific tool is used, then perhaps one should not be looking at the tools but the person using them to be more memorable.Originally posted by bunnyrabbit48
I'm trying to remember what it was like when I first started. I guess there may be a time that a flogger or a paddle is enough but now it is just a warm up tool for me. From that point on, riding crop would be consider painful to me, but a cane is needed for me to remember that session.