Spanking and caning

[write4jetc]

she sure is one exhausting sub! Luckily, I like a bit of rebellion in her; we obviously don't have a typical dom/sub relation, as I'm sure you've noticed!

Never mind, I'll soon have her whipped into line.

[AmandasSpankee]

<<Never mind, I'll soon have her whipped into line.>>

whimper, whimper - please!!??

[Jane SC]

Hi All,

I am not always this late in posting onto a thread, but blame Tourguide for suggesting that it might be fun to reopen the old threads, even if this one has been 'dead' for well over a year.

I read through the various postings and I have to say that I found them to be interesting and amusing, with a soupcon of fear thrown in too. I have had a few years of experience of both 'friendly' spankings which can be incredibly erotic, and far FAR less friendly canings which can be hideously painful. But, as an owned submissive, I have to accept what my owner thinks is right for me, being it erotic or painful. (Being a masochist DOES help...... LOL)

One point I have to make concerns the writer who stated that she was totally put off caning by the 'mess'. In my own experience drawing blood during a caning normlly only happens by accident when one stroke falls across the flesh struck by a previous blow. Then you can get blood emerging where the strokes intersect. But my owner doesn't let that happen. And he knows just how hard to strike so as to produce large, painful and long-lasting welts, but not to draw blood or to badly mess up my poor backside. I won't pretend that I can wear a bikini next day, but the damage done to my backside by canings gradually fades, even if the memory lingers on.

As I said, caning for us is an ultimate sanction; it is a punishment pure and simple, whereas 'whippings' with other instruments can be both erotic and delightful although, again, it DOES help to be a masochist.

I suppose that everyone feels very differently about infliction of pain; I get an incredible buzz from it up to a certain level. And my owner knows exactly where that boundary is for me, so he can safely differentiate between the pain I enjoy and the level of pain which is unavoidable and unpleasant punishment.

Anyway it would be nice to hear what the rest of you think.

Love Jane.

[pussy_cat]

i like spankings. i like hands, paddles, wooden spoons, etc. My Master canes me occasionally. He doesn't use whips, cat-o-nines, floggers, etc.

I grew up in U.A.E, where teachers used paddles and canes in discipline.

[esclava]

As I said, caning for us is an ultimate sanction; it is a punishment pure and simple, whereas 'whippings' with other instruments can be both erotic and delightful although, again, it DOES help to be a masochist.

I suppose that everyone feels very differently about infliction of pain; I get an incredible buzz from it up to a certain level. And my owner knows exactly where that boundary is for me, so he can safely differentiate between the pain I enjoy and the level of pain which is unavoidable and unpleasant punishment.

Anyway it would be nice to hear what the rest of you think.

I'm so glad this one came up again! (I'm too lazy to browse the archives too much.) My first master used canes purely for punishment. I was a "slow learner" for a while and grew to dread caning. But my new Master really likes caning and not for punishment. It took me quite a while to adjust my outlook, but he's taught me that they can be sensual as well as just plain brutal. And nice bonus, when kids are home the canes are reasonably quiet.

[Jones, Nikka]

*sighs with a dreamy look in her eyes*
In my humble opinion, nothing makes me more beautiful than the deep red welts of a fresh caning swelling across my thighs and buttocks.
I will not deny it is an acquired taste (and most of it is only my feverish brain fantasizing overtime) but it is intensely erotic.

[Mobius]

Not to Hijack this thread but when you go to the Doctor (female kind Gyno ect) How do you explain the welts if they are still there. I know in the states in the ER they are required by law to report demestic abuse.

[esclava]

Not to Hijack this thread but when you go to the Doctor (female kind Gyno ect) How do you explain the welts if they are still there. I know in the states in the ER they are required by law to report demestic abuse.

Both my Gyn and family docs know that I'm a masochist, they know what Master and I are into (on a superficial level) and I made it clear to them what to possibly expect. My Gyn gets a chuckle out of my piercings. I had to "screen" 3 family docs before I found one who was willing to accept me "as is" without freaking, and he's actually happy that I was up front with him and reassured that I won't hesitate to present with a problem just because I'm marked.

[sweetplymate]

Not to Hijack this thread but when you go to the Doctor (female kind Gyno ect) How do you explain the welts if they are still there. I know in the states in the ER they are required by law to report demestic abuse.

i was lucky enough to find a young an very open minded gyn...she's awesome and has no problems with my lifestyle...she even recommended a piercer (just offered up the information) if i ever decided to go that route *lol* and i have a sneaking suspicion that the RN that i see there when my gyn is unavailable is into the lifestyle herself...not that she actually admitted to it, but a few comments made it pretty clear that even if she wasnt currently active she was at one point...

i guess though, for those that arent as lucky as i am...generally speaking you know well enough in advance when your appointment is that you can plan accordingly with your Master as to not leave any visible signs of His love for you

[Mobius]

Well you could always just say honestly to your doctor "I wear the marks of my masters love"

[Jones, Nikka]

Not to Hijack this thread but when you go to the Doctor (female kind Gyno ect) How do you explain the welts if they are still there. I know in the states in the ER they are required by law to report demestic abuse.

Simple. I would tell my doctor where the welts came from. He is open minded enough to know that as a painslut, I need to be flogged every now and then and that it is done with my consent. Besides, I have never mentioned to him the name of my boyfriend.
If he ever contacted the police about it, they would need a neme to press charges, something I would of course refuse.
So far, however I had never had to go for an exam bearing any kind of scar, bruise or welt.

[allalone46]

Simple. I would tell my doctor where the welts came from. He is open minded enough to know that as a painslut, I need to be flogged every now and then and that it is done with my consent. Besides, I have never mentioned to him the name of my boyfriend.
If he ever contacted the police about it, they would need a neme to press charges, something I would of course refuse.
So far, however I had never had to go for an exam bearing any kind of scar, bruise or welt.

Glad your in Canada. In the US the Doctor has to inform the Cops.

[esclava]

Glad your in Canada. In the US the Doctor has to inform the Cops.

ONLY if the doctor suspects abuse. That's why I believe it's very important to be upfront with your doc BEFORE there's a potential problem. Honesty protects everyone.

[bearbeast]

during the day I have tasks to complete before my Mistress awakes, but since been given the use of a computer, my tasks have not been complete, so my punishments are mounting

[himind]

I think that's a rather irresponsible attitude to have about caning. I don't think anyone needs reminding of how painful a session can be, especially if you have been using pain as your primary motivator throughout the session.

There's also a lot more to think about than just "not impacting the same spot again." Anything that raises welts and/or leaves a lasting mark and/or breaks the skin needs to be dealt with with extra care. Ice, creams and maybe even bandages need to be applied and the affected area needs to be loked after carefully until it heals. Also, no other sessions should take place, at least no other activity should take place in the wounded area until it has had time to amply heal.

One reason I don't deal with canes and switches much is because of their lasting effects. The potential to seriously wound someone is not a risk I am willing to take. If I did use either of these tools, it would be lightly.

I agree.The cane can be a vicious and dangerous tool in the wrong hands. I personally prefer the hand or the hairbrush for this purpose.There's no danger of breaking the skin and it leaves a nice even pink finish

[bearbeast]

All I Can Say Is That I Love A Good Thrashing It Makes My Day

Howl Howl Howlllllllllllllll

[bearbeast]

please do not worry I may have used the wrong word, my mistress take great care of me, and will only addmister it by watching my body laungue, and my hand jesters, she is a careful Mistress in my childhood I gor many whippings from my foster mother :yuck: , and she didn't care how they landed. or what they left. but thats then this is now, and i'm very happy,

so bye bye for now.