I am a Victorian lady at heart, I am a writer, and I enjoy multicultural activities, food and dress. I am a hopeless romantic, a natural submissive, and looking for the right type of dom. I have a strong bondage kink, though I'm not really into pain. No, being a submissive does not mean that I like, or want, pain, though I know it has its uses. I firmly believe in courtesy, manners, correct grammar usage, and general good upbringing. A woman should always have standards, and should be strong enough to hold to, and enforce them. I also believe that neither chivalry nor romance is dead nor a lost art; they both just ned to be demanded and encouraged.