i have been experimanting with BDSM for a little while now, i have always thought till now i knew what i was and was definate about my role in my relationship as a dom. however the more i have been reasearching the lifestyle the more i have found i enjoy certain pain aspects like candlewax and wipping, i have always thought of these as sub based activities and as a dom i am unsure as to weather it is ok for me to like these things,

can i get my sub to inflict pain on me and still be the dom or have i become a switch and should give my sub some control