What was the first submissive thing you did?

[burger_01]

I guess the first submissive thing I did was ask my girlfriend to sit on top of me and cover me in clothes pegs.. was a lot of fun.

still need her to take the initiative though.. oh well, shes a smart enough cookie.

[woodsman'sgame]

We'd been married a year and had nothing but vanilla sex 3 to four times a day. (We were teenagers)
I walked into the kitchen one day and he asked me to turn around, and bend over, and pull my panties down. My face was burning with embarassment, but I complied. To my complete surprise and humiliation he placed his finger covered with butter on my anus and slowly pushed it in. He had never touched me there before. When he saw how aroused it made me, he knew he could demand more, and he did. That was the beginning of the road we have taken. I still get aroused thinking of it 29 years later.

[kittenfemme]

woodsman'sgame! *purr!* That's fantastic!

[burger_01]

Originally posted by woodsman'sgame
We'd been married a year and had nothing but vanilla sex 3 to four times a day!!!!

Thats kinky enough in my book! LOL... sounds like you two get along well then

[woodsman'sgame]

Thats kinky enough in my book! LOL... sounds like you two get along well then

I guess it was a little bit of an exaggeration. Sometimes we only did it twice.

Remember what you were like at eighteen.

[kittenfemme]

Originally posted by woodsman'sgame
I guess it was a little bit of an exaggeration. Sometimes we only did it twice.

Remember what you were like at eighteen.

Heh, I don't have to. I know what I'm like now.

[woodsman'sgame]

Originally posted by kittenfemme
Heh, I don't have to. I know what I'm like now.

LOL Kittenfemme, I know what you mean. The tables are turned. I'm at my peak and he isn't a teenager anymore. It's his turn to be worn out.

[burger_01]

Originally posted by woodsman'sgame
LOL Kittenfemme, I know what you mean. The tables are turned. I'm at my peak and he isn't a teenager anymore. It's his turn to be worn out.

of course i remember what i was like at 18! it was only 2 years ago! LOL

you're right though, we just can't lay off it.

now.. i'm off to have a kip and dream up what i'm gonna do when the girlfriend gets back

[swagato]

well, this is what my subbie experienced as her first...she was 18 years 2 months odd...and this was two years back...

she came to my farmhouse around an hour late, so naturally, the punishment started then itself.
first off she was tied with arms pulled up high overhead til she was suspended by her wrists. i stimulated her, then when she was good and wet, and a bit loud, her panties went into her mouth. then followed an hour's whipping on her front only. i used a hundred clothespins on her tits alone, then whipped them off with a rattan cane. next was a strappado which had her in tears, since she was nearly hanging, and resting only on knee points. back and ass floggin, hot waxing, caning for two hours. then bastinado and feet-waxing for the next half an hour. finally i tied her in a hogtie, with hair, ballag and elbowes tied to feet. then having flipped on her back, she was suspended by a crotchrope...well, only her toetips touched ground, and with me constantly whipping her gorgeous tummy, she was crying for an orgasm. so i tied her nipples off to the ceiling, then hoisted her up by them, them took her in that position. when we had finished, i tied her, by her own request, back in the crotch pull postion for the rest of the night, with three candles burning below her back, and four over her, dripping one directly on her pussy, another into her dental-gagged mouth, other two on her nipple-pulled tits.
it was one wonderful session...

[Polish_girl]

well, this is what my subbie experienced as her first...she was 18 years 2 months odd...and this was two years back...

she came to my farmhouse around an hour late, so naturally, the punishment started then itself.
first off she was tied with arms pulled up high overhead til she was suspended by her wrists. i stimulated her, then when she was good and wet, and a bit loud, her panties went into her mouth. then followed an hour's whipping on her front only. i used a hundred clothespins on her tits alone, then whipped them off with a rattan cane. next was a strappado which had her in tears, since she was nearly hanging, and resting only on knee points. back and ass floggin, hot waxing, caning for two hours. then bastinado and feet-waxing for the next half an hour. finally i tied her in a hogtie, with hair, ballag and elbowes tied to feet. then having flipped on her back, she was suspended by a crotchrope...well, only her toetips touched ground, and with me constantly whipping her gorgeous tummy, she was crying for an orgasm. so i tied her nipples off to the ceiling, then hoisted her up by them, them took her in that position. when we had finished, i tied her, by her own request, back in the crotch pull postion for the rest of the night, with three candles burning below her back, and four over her, dripping one directly on her pussy, another into her dental-gagged mouth, other two on her nipple-pulled tits.
it was one wonderful session...

wow that is extreme kind of hot but I hope my master doesn't try anything like that anytime soon already being with a man who won't do exactly was I want is different and I love it but I am beautiful and used to getting my way with men don't know how I would handle that

[Strawberry]

I've been lurking for quite a bit but that's pushed me to make my first post - that was hot!

[Jones, Nikka]

The first submissive thing that I did was to meet my lover at the door of my appartment completely naked. Thus we spent the afternoon together. I cooked, had dinner, watched TV and read to my lover while I contemplated the difference clothes can make. I felt so helpless, so submissive yet so true to myself, overcoming my shyness in front of a fully clothed person. I loved the feeling. To this day the sexiest thing I can say to my lover is "I love being naked next to you"

[buttons_70]

Hi all,

Interesting topic.

I am reletavily new to BDSM so the first thing i did was allow a boyfriend who was heavily into the local scene here place a leather collar around my neck whilst we made love one night.

In no way did he Dominate me through bondage or other means but it simply made me feel I was his and keen to do all I could to please him.

Simple yet very effective.

[abitbent]

My first recollection of submissiveness i'm afraid isn't all that exciting either, but the topic is "your first"... lol

I was always a polite kid and as a youngster, I was "that single boy" that often got invited to girls' birthday parties. Of the many girls i befreinded as a young boy, i used to spend some time with two sisters that i went to school with. One was my age, the other a year older. We spent lots of time colouring, jumping rope (i did have my share of male friends as well!) and playing innocent games. It never occured to me then, but everytime we played house, there was a disagreement of who i was to play. I always opted for the family dog, the girls of course opted for me to be the husband.

Interstignly enough, even today, i think i'd still rather be the dog. lol Curled up at my Mistress's foot, waiting to jump at Her command... swoon...

bent

[Shellyfemme]

abitbent thats so sweet

[rhiannonmackey]

I think the first submissive happenings i can remember, was with my ex-fiance. We were sitting around one night and talking about a few thngs after sex, and i mouthed off about something and he turned me over on my stomach slaped my ass once good and fucked the hell out of me.. it was great. We had fooled around previously with some bondage but i never really looked at it as submission till then. *shrugs* I may precive things oddly

*looks around meekly*

[albear]

a little bit of light bondage...
it has taken me the last three years to realise what truly fulfills me, but i'm here now

[alura]

I know your post is a year old but...me, too, albear. Never had actually done it, but I have fantasized about it since I was 6 years old.

Why haven't I done anything about it yet, you may ask? Wellll...because my ex was/is vanilla and although it's been a year and a half, I'm still to terrified to even date, much less get intimate with someone.

But someday, my Vibrating Prince will come......

a little bit of light bondage...
it has taken me the last three years to realise what truly fulfills me, but i'm here now

[MayYellow]

Now, as a kid I always liked being tied up to chairs and things like that, but never thought of it in a sexual way....until recently. So my boyfriend and I were talking about what we might like to do in the bedroom and I brought up that I'd like to be spanked. It only escalated from there. When I went over to visit, we had quite the time. He pulled me around by my hair, bent me over his knee, and spanked me 'til my little bum was bruised. Then he fucked me senseless and finished off by cumming all over my face. My favorite part was how he ordered me around. It was like nothing we had ever done, and I'm hooked on it.

[slutbeth]

First submissive thing i had experienced was to strip naked and be told to masturbate in front of Him and His best friend...totally unexpected, but extremely horny, i was not allowed permission to cum until i was told to.

I guess the next thing i remember is being told to shave 'down there' and til this day i keep that as my routine.. and now i'd feel weird unshaved.

[Duetta]

I still haven't got that first experience of submissiveness to relate to you *sigh*.......

But will be back first thing, when I have something to tell

Duetta

[rallan]

Well I don't really have any childhood experiences which nicely foreshadowed the way I turned out but my first adult experience with bdsm was pretty nifty, since I managed to kill two birds with one stone. I'd been thinking of experimenting with another guy for a while, and eventually I got up my nerve to ask this guy a friend of mine knew. So I'm over at his place having my first gay experience and I joke about how his bed'd be pretty convenient for tying someone up to. He just grins and says "Well actually...", before pulling a box of goodies out from under the bed, and it was on for young and old.

So yeah, fun all round. And since this is a BDSM forum, you guys'll be happy to know that fun though the whole other-guy thing was, it's a night that I'm always gonna remember mainly as my first bondage experience


Rallan

[Kelli]

My first experience was with my bf. He was pulling and twisting my nipples, and getting rougher and rougher. It felt so good, but pain too. I was sort of trying to get him to stop, but not very hard. He then started pinning me with his body so I couldn't fight back. After that, we bought some restraints, nipple clamps, and a variety of toys.

[acissej]

There's a childhood incident which I vividly remember. When I was about 10, I had two good friends, Eric and Dave, who I would play cops and robbers with. That was all pretty tame, but one time, Dave's older brother (who I had a crush on) joined the game and took it further. The three of them tied me up with a jump rope and carried me into a shed (more of a playhouse, really) they had in Eric's backyard. In the shed, they tied me to a chair, gagged me and left me there for a little while before letting me go. For months after that, I tried to get Eric and Dave to repeat the experience, but had no luck. When I was 16, I found a boyfriend I trusted enough to share some of my tamer fantasies with and finally got tied up again.

I have to say, I do wonder now why the brother, who must have been at least 16 or 17, was tying up 10-year-old girls in a shed.

-acissej

[shawshank]

It was a little after college. My girlfriend and I were at her apartment and she just kept wheedling me (I never could say no when she gave me that face and those big brown eyes). We went to her bedroom and stripped, she put a small dog collar on my cock and then forced a little padlock through the material of the collar. After making sure it was secure, she attached a chain. Leading me out to the living room (with all the shades drawn), she put in her favorite movie and had me suck on her toes and tits while fingering her clit to pleasure her. (I never went as far as eating her, for which I regret for we broke up shortly after that.) Now when I want to get turned on, I think about that night, being led around by the cock. (I almost went nuts one day in a Spencers when I saw an item called the big dog leash, but didn'y have the guts to buy it.)

[Jessie]

it would have to be last summer. my boyfriend's parents were out of town, as were my parents. i slipped over to his house. we didnt actuall have sex (we were only 15) but i stayed there for three days. during that time he keept me naked. i had to sleep on the floor beside his bed and wear a dog collar. as he watched tv he would have me blow him. he even made me eat out of a dog dish! on the fist day i was caught drinking some of his beer so he made me take a shit outside in his backyard! my avatar is a picture of me on my chest after i did it. i enjoyed it all! i never knew i liked that kind of stuff!

[BDSM_Tourguide]

I'm sorry to inform you, but this is an adult website. I'm afraid, unless you're 18 or older, that we're going to have to ask you to leave until your 18th birthday.

Sorry about that, but it is the law.

[Jessie]

sorry about that. i dint know. u can delete this acount.

[themoog]

hi, my first entrance to bdsm was from reading stories in forum magazine, i then started reading stories to my girlfriend who told me the idea of me dominating her was a hell of a turn on so we bought some bondage tape from a shop and i tied her to the bed with it on several occasions, the first time i just made love to her while she was tied up, the second time i teased her mercilesly with ice cubes and bit her nipples. the third time was the best as i not only blindfolded her but i also used my fingers, a coke bottle and some ice to make her cum time and time again, i think we stopped after she had 25 orgasms and the sheet beneath her was saturated with her cum. she was so tender afterwards she could hardly walk the next day. we did discuss many things we would like to try with me being dominant and her being sub, including me letting other guys use her for sex while she was tied up (her idea) but unfortunately she left me shortly afterwards saying she couldnt cope with a long distance relationship anymore (we were only 160 miles apart).

[bug]

let's see here....the first submissive thing i ever did was letting myself be tied up and held at my lovers mercy by Him and another woman and They were exceptionally fun which is why i married Him and still call Her *laffs*