Originally Posted by Tojo
When I need to be........
Originally Posted by Tojo
When I need to be........
This thread is kinda funny.....and I will resist getting into it myself for fear of....getting into it.
"Wise men talk because they have something to say. Fools talk because they have to say something."
- Plato
Ayla, thanks for inspiring me to do the same.
Sometimes it's better to say nothing than say something when you have nothing to say.
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Tojo
Happy to support new (& experienced) subs/Doms in any way I can.
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'If you ain't where you're at, you're noplace'
Col. Potter M.A.S.H.
Hey folks I hope you all ain't afraid to post because of Aesop the snarling fox. lol
I really enjoy a good debate and hope to have and participate in a bunch of them in the future here, but I can't allow the flames to fly. So as long as everybody keeps to the topic at hand then everybody will be fine.![]()
Remember yourselves.
Originally Posted by Aesop
It's not you dude....
The Wizard of Ahhhhhhhs
Chief Magistrate - Emerald City
I think that original quote had a few typos.. so I fixed them.. well as best I coud from memory....
Hence, it will be found that the fundamental fault of the male character is that it has and exaggerated sense of self-serving justice. This is mainly due to the fact, already mentioned, that men are defective in the power of reasoning and deliberation; but it is also traceable to the position which Nature has assigned to them as the stronger sex, which is to say physically stronger, not necessarily mentally superior. They are dependent upon strength, not craft, and hence their instinctive incapacity for cunning, and their incredible tendency not to say anything, but to simply act in their own self-interest.
On a serious note.. any discussion about one gender being better than the other.. is doomed from the start. It's going to be littered with personal experience and not based on anything worth being used as a foundation. People are so diverse that it's truly a fool's errand to try and make such broad sweeping generalizations to encompass something like 3 billion people (aren't there 6 billion folks on the planet? Or are we getting near 7?)
Wow, I woke up today.. with big words in my head. I'm glad I got them out.. now can someone translate what I said so I can understand it??
Are the sexes bound to miscommunicate? I do not think that by nature of their sexes, people are doomed to miscommunication, but by their very nature as people. I would say most miscommunication is not gender related, but personality related.
Yes, women think with both the emotional and logical sides of their brain, and men tend to think with just the logical, but that in and of itself does not explain the constant miscommunications among people, or those who tend to relate better to those of the opposite sex.
People are people. Some are easy to get along with, others are not. It is our experiences and our education and our personalities that determine how we communicate, not our gender alone. I think you seriously understate the issue here. Jsut my $.02
Was it me?
LOL No!!
The Wizard of Ahhhhhhhs
Chief Magistrate - Emerald City
Nope wasn't Aesop or subwife that scared me off- although subwife was a bit scary....
It's just a debate that isn't going anywhere.
Tojo
Happy to support new (& experienced) subs/Doms in any way I can.
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'If you ain't where you're at, you're noplace'
Col. Potter M.A.S.H.
Your right this conversation has gone no where. Sorry Tojo....didn't mean to be scary.Originally Posted by Tojo
Oh I like a sub with a mind of their own & who can stand up for themselves subwife- it's great to see.
I'd like to see some of these wannabee Doms with my girls- they'd be chewed up & spat out in 2 seconds flat!
Stay scary- I love it!![]()
Tojo
Happy to support new (& experienced) subs/Doms in any way I can.
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'If you ain't where you're at, you're noplace'
Col. Potter M.A.S.H.
Don't worry I will continue to be me. I'll admit, sometimes I scare even me. lolOriginally Posted by Tojo
Originally Posted by Tojo
There's nothing like a challenge.....
The Wizard of Ahhhhhhhs
Chief Magistrate - Emerald City
Personally, I don't aspire to the notion that gender difference is the cause of misunderstanding or miscommunication. Although, I'm in agreement with those who believe that some people use it as a convenient excuse.
I work in an office that is overwhelmingly staffed by females, most of whom I communicate with well. If there has been any clashes, their causes have been personality differences, which could happen with other males as well. Gender has absolutely nothing to do with whether or not I communicate with someone. In a job situation, most of the communicating is strictly job related anyway.
On a personal note, I went through an emotionally draining experience with a woman, but that was twenty years ago. That one event, however, did not sour me toward all women. In fact, as a group, I love having the opposite gender around. The woman I'm with now has been here for ten years. Sure there have been miscommications from time to time as in any relationship. But the fact that we are opposite genders is irrelevant.
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