Wired in reverse?

[Jennifer Williams]

Oh, absolutely. The "secretive-ness" of it and sometimes messing with vanilla's heads is certainly fun. And if I walked into a party with a leash around his neck, I would certainly expect people to give us strange looks (it would be kinda freaky if they didn't).

I was just lamenting that it seems you can't do anything these days without someone else telling you you're doing it wrong- what if he went to pick up your dry-cleaning? I'll bet the same people will pipe up with what's wrong with that.

Maybe it's just the same ten people over and over, doing their best to annoy the rest of us...

[pixie_piper]

lol i wouldn't be the least bit surprised. It's an underground society of douche bags who hate their lives and want everyone else to :-P

[13'sbadkitty]

yesterday when i was reading this exact thread a close friend from my life came by unannounced, i instantly clicked this off because i didn't want to hear it. the truth is also, i would love to live in a world where i could not have to avoid having stripes when its near doctors visits, where i wouldn't have to run to the bedroom to make sure everything is put away right when people come over who may want to see the house. i may not want to walk around calling Him "Master" all the time, but it would be nice if that was what W/we wanted it wouldn't raise eyebrows. i do have kids in school and i need to fit in and i need not to bail Him out because in my state much of what W/we do isn't even legal.

[Jennifer Williams]

I don't care what other people want to think. Honestly. I just wish that if they don't agree with the way we're doing it that they could keep such thoughts inside their head. I don't go around telling other people that they're "doing it wrong," and I wish I could get the same courtesy.

[pixie_piper]

Oh i do understand, believe me. Master won't even get an account on here for fear of people at work finding out. i'd like to be accepted, but i also realize that sometimes it being taboo makes it more fun. i dunno, maybe i'm just trying to find the sunny side to the situation.

[fetishdj]

I think the thrill of secrecy is part of the appeal but agree that there is a fine line between a need for secrecy and outright condenmation if discovered.