Submission slavery and objectification

[BDSM_Tourguide]

I have seen a lot of relationships ruined by people that either weren't ready, had no idea what they were getting themselves into or thought that the bdsm relationship would be all roses and perfection with very little work.

If you didn't read that article, I do recommend scrolling up and having a look at it. I wrote a couple of more awhile back. They're still around somewhere, probably on page two of this forum.

Anyway, have fun! Talk to you later.

[traprock]

"The bottom line is I don't care if you use the title slave, you can call yourself Praxion from the planet Ziffania for all I care."

I'm brand new to the site and I love reading your stuff, I learn so much from you. Your humor especially, and your honesty.

[traprock]

"The bottom line is I don't care if you use the title slave, you can call yourself Praxion from the planet Ziffania for all I care."

I'm brand new to the site and I love reading your stuff, I learn so much from you. Your humor especially, and your honesty.

[tehya]

First off let me just say how much I enjoy and respect everyone's opinions here.

Next I see that it has been a long time since anyone has posted to this thread... but felt the need to do so myself.

Now my eloquence does not come in written form, but I will do my best to get my thoughts in as straight a line as possible.

What is a submissive or slave? For myself the need for a title went out the door a long time ago. I have found that i am many things at different times, scenes, settings, etc. To put myself in one category would be like seeing in only black and white...

The D/s and/or BDSM world is so vast that it would take an infinite amount of lifetimes to experience all that one could think up.. in other words, we are only limited by our imaginations and willingness to learn, grow and experience.

My Master and I define who and what we are every day that we are together... a constant journey, ever changing and expanding. Bottom line is... I am His.

His what, some might be asking. Well, I would have to say that I am whatever He wants me to be at any given moment. Whether it be sub, slave, pet or table. It is what I chose for myself, and give freely over to Him. He understands the enormity of the commitment and responsibility I have placed at His feet. In return, I understand my place as I kneel before Him, ready to perform any task He sets before me, with respect, love and honor.

Hmmmm perhaps I can best sum it up in: i am His tehya.

Well I guess I have rambled on long enough...

Master's tehya

[slavelucy]

My Master and I define who and what we are every day that we are together... a constant journey, ever changing and expanding. Bottom line is... I am His.

His what, some might be asking. Well, I would have to say that I am whatever He wants me to be at any given moment. Whether it be sub, slave, pet or table. It is what I chose for myself, and give freely over to Him. He understands the enormity of the commitment and responsibility I have placed at His feet. In return, I understand my place as I kneel before Him, ready to perform any task He sets before me, with respect, love and honor.

Hmmmm perhaps I can best sum it up in: i am His tehya.

You may not think you're eloquent, but i think you put this really well, in fact, this is one of the bests posts on this thread, IMO. It makes perfect sense when you think about it, that in a personal Ds relationship, you just are what you are to your dominant.

Nice one tehya!

sl

[Jones, Nikka]

You may not think you're eloquent, but i think you put this really well, in fact, this is one of the bests posts on this thread, IMO. It makes perfect sense when you think about it, that in a personal Ds relationship, you just are what you are to your dominant.

I agree. Sometimes too much emphasis is put on labels and titles. What you feel inside is what really counts. I believe tehya put has it best so far.

[tehya]

Nikka & slavelucy,

Thank you both so much... being this was my first real post, i appreciate your kind words. It is hard sometimes to voice my opinion... fear of ruffling feathers and all. LOL Anyway, i enjoyed it immensely and look forward to sharing my opinions and ideals with everyone. I am sure there will plenty who disagree, but it is nice to know that others think along the same lines as well. I look forward to my time here as one of great learning and growth.

Master's tehya

[fetish101]

It is hard sometimes to voice my opinion... fear of ruffling feathers and all. LOL Anyway, i enjoyed it immensely and look forward to sharing my opinions and ideals with everyone. I am sure there will plenty who disagree, but it is nice to know that others think along the same lines as well.

lol...sharing your personal views on a subject such as this would hardly step on anyone's toes or ruffle any feathers. You are a very well spoken, clear headed individual and any and all posts you contribute I'm sure will be well received by this community.

Nice to meet you, and I hope you post more on the boards

Fetish101