Quote Originally Posted by jules View Post
I think the key though is something in your last post, Sagacious - [I]The trick is simply to find someone to play with who has complimentary appetites and with whom you can develop a connection.
Yes, I totally agree jules. It is really just that simple. Success is found by relating to someone with compatible interests that is looking for the same type of experience and with whom you can connect on that basis. Can't say I fault you with regard to your feelings about the importance of grammar and spelling. That can be a great distraction even when the person might be effectively communicating otherwise.