The ethics of playing with a newbie.

[just_ine]

Thank You for each answer. It highlighted, for me, different aspects.

*Communication.

*Be upfront about what You seek....mmmmm's or ouchies....one 'scene' or a long(er) term relationship.

*Slow going.

*Enlarging of the new submissive's knowledge base and giving experiences that add to their own self-knowledge. Self-knowledge that will not only provide a harnass to protect them from predators, but also provide compass to where their kinks (may) lie.

*Being deliberate in education, in pulling the submissive closer with tasks/rituals

These were the points that stood out for me personally.
They confirmed some things I suspected and raised some issues I want to spend some more time thinking about.

A great big thanks to Each.
just_ine

[Solis]

I'd be pleased to learn what eventually comes of your reflection dear. You ask good questions and, I suspect, will find original and subtle answers.

As ever,

S.