Sub drop- (I hate the term, but what can you do? Whoever came up with the D/s dictionary has a lot to answer for)

It's something that sounds silly & obvious to all those, except the subs who have suffered from it. I've spoken with a few women who have been very upset by the offhand manner they've been treated to after a session.

It's easy to overlook- in simple terms a Dom needs to tell his sub she may be feeling down after a session, sometimes hours or even days afterwards.

He needs to stay with her immediately after the session & not just walk away. Not like a certain Tojo who in his last full-on session, almost did just that. (I was blinded by the intensity- I'm not perfect!)

The young lady in question said 'don't just go & leave me' or words to that effect, which started my brain working again.

I liken it to 'straight' sex or intimacy- it's not nice to play around with someone's emotions for 2 hours or whatever, then pull your boots on & go out. Or to just roll over & go to sleep. Aftercare.

Thanks to the aforementioned young lady, I'll remember that always- if I ever indulge in a full-on D/s relationship again.

Apologies for lack of political correctness in this & other posts- I'm too lazy to put he/she, Dom/me every time. A sub is a sub & a Dom/me a Dom/me to me, male female or uncertain. Vive la difference.


Tojo