Sub Drop

[cariad]

Adding my thanks nikita - don't think I have ever seen it quite so simply or helpfully described. It can be a horrible to place to be, and every sub should have that article tucked under their pillow; either to read to themselves or give to their Dominant partner.

Oh - and looking back to your original question Aussiegirl - it is very real, and can happen even with the best of aftercare.

cariad

[hotfirefly]

every sub should have that article tucked under their pillow; either to read to themselves or give to their Dominant partner.

I agree. my husband/master and I are pretty new to this and I don't think he knows about subdrop either. I've already printed the article out to show him. When we talk he tells me that he worries that he's hurt me too much or gone too far and I can tell he's more tentative the next time. which makes me feel worse for causing him doubt since it wasn't too much (not by a long shot! hehe) and makes me nervous that he is nervous.

did that make sense?

anyway it's a viscious circle. but I think that after reading the article, we can anticipate any mental effects more. and I think that just being aware of them and know why they are there will make them much better, if not easier, to deal with.