New to this, where to start?

[leo9]

m new here too and looking for advice. im really curious about the bdsm lifestyle and have thought about different scenes a lot. i dont know what to do. im ready to start. im married and my husband is up for trying anything. but i dont know if hes going to be up to what im thinking...

Fortunately, you have a resource right next door. Look through the Library for stories that match the kind of scenes you're dreaming of, show them to your husband and see if they work for him too.

Bearing in mind, of course, that a lot of what you read there is don't-try-this-at-home stuff, meaning it sounds cool but wouldn't work for real. But even the pure fantasies will show you if the two of you are on the same page.