If you're up and online this evening, you could pop into chat and join in the discussion group. The information is in this thread: http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/sh...029#post973029

If you can make it, it's a great opportunity to hear different ideas and thoughts from people in the community.

Aside from that, a good place to start is by learning about safety. Things like safe words, limits, SSC (safe, sane, consensual) and how safety is the responsibility of both sub and Dom/me. Not as exciting as starting off with tales of bondage and floggings maybe, but understanding the safety things first gives you a good foundation in how to look after yourself, and avoid a lot of the dangers and horror stories a lot of new subs come across early on.