All people are complex, multifaceted, and multidimensional. When we apply labels beit scene or gender you put on blinders and see only a narrow view of an expansive and complicated human being. For many it seems simply easier to ‘pigeon’ hole a person, stereotypically placing them nicely into a compartment.

To consider that another has an ability not to sit neatly in one area I suppose could be a difficult concept to grasp for some. Switching doesn’t fit into one compartment therefore it’s a lifestyle choice in my mind.

I think it is very important to look within, to fully appreciate who you are, a unique individual. As others state above I feel Domme with some and sub with others it’s just me. I have experienced a plethora of attitudes towards this, from determined as a switch I lack the ability to make up my mind to a suggestion of being greedy. Neither which of course is appropriate. So I conclude fair enough as long as they also do me the courtesy of keeping their opinions to themselves I don’t have a problem. I accept their preference therefore accept mine.

Sett