I am an affectionate person in real life, and online i act much the same way. I will walk into chat and huggle, lick, grope, kiss and be playful with most folks. In real life i hug and kiss the people i know when greeting them. But i also feel that over the last year or so online i have come to know these people enough to feel comfortable being the more kinky playful person i am. I have not thought that perhaps my actions would be taken offensively as i am not directly scening with anyone. If i meet someone for the first time, i greet them respectfully, no matter o/l or r/l. However, after reading others opinions, i wonder if my actions are bothersome or offensive to others. I wont change who i am, but this makes me hesitate and wonder how many people have thought poorly of me for my behavior. I love being the girl that in some small way is able to help people laugh, smile, and not take life so seriously and enjoy it. But in doing so, i may perceived as disrespectful. In real life, or online, if i am acting in a manner which others do not approve, i take the feedback very personally, and hope that if they feel strongly about it, that they would tell me. It took me a long time to feel confident and sure of myself to show the less reserved side, and that is what i thought i found here too. I leave each time from chat with "Huggles, licks, gropes to A/all you kinky folks" and have never meant to be offensive in doing so.